Our Philosophy
Meet to Marry is sparking a dating-for-marriage revolution by providing marriage-minded singles the tools they need to find the lifetime love they want.
We are passionate about helping singles of all backgrounds "Be the One to Find the One." This means achieving clarity about what you desire from a committed relationship by conquering feelings of fear or a difficult past through a proven process of self-examination and empowerment—and acting on that knowledge!
With a commitment to marriage readiness and meaningful dating, Meet to Marry provides real tools and real people to help singles identify exactly who they're looking for and how to achieve lasting love.
Core Values
These characteristics define the heart of Meet to Marry in all we do:
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Relationship
People should always come first, and we foster client relationships that have a ripple effect of healthy marriages. We believe that loving partnerships are good for families and also good for the world.
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Empowerment
We are committed to providing our clients with a positive experience on their “Be the One to Find the One” journey. Our clients will learn to trust that they can choose their own path to an engaged, enduring relationship.
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Honesty
Central to experiencing individual breakthroughs is the ability to honestly evaluate oneself. Meet to Marry is devoted to asking the questions that help singles achieve that clarity, and we value sincerity in all aspects of our relationships with clients.
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Growth
All of our clients should experience significant, authentic personal growth as a result of the Meet to Marry program. We believe that personal awareness and transformation should continue throughout their relationship journey with their spouse.
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Practicality
Meet to Marry is for singles who are serious about finding their future spouse—which is why, unlike many self-help programs, we provide practical tools and advice to help you achieve your goals.
Bari with her husband Michael.
AboutBari Lyman
Founder and CEO
As a successful business owner, Bari was used to two things: helping people and being successful. With her staffing company BreakthroughIT, Bari played career matchmaker by helping people find the perfect company fit for their professional aspirations.
But despite her business success, she felt discontent when it came to romance. The product of a lonely childhood as well as unfulfilling relationships, she felt incapable of attracting the right man. Not a woman to give up easily, she began a journey to discover her own relationship blockages and blind spots—and conquer them.
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On a day-to-day basis, I took on the willingness to grow and change, and so my life changed as a result. It’s a day-by-day—sometimes hour-by-hour, or minute-by-minute—commitment to developing a new you. But if I could do it, you can do it.
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Her personal transformation into a confident, purposeful dater who knew exactly what she was looking for in a partner—to feel cherished, experience unconditional love and find true partnership —led her to finding Michael. Married in August of 2004, they now share a fulfilling and joyful marriage, and Bari has brought similar breakthroughs to scores of other marriage-minded singles.
Bari created the Meet to Marry program based on techniques and lessons learned from a lifetime of personal growth as well as intense study of relationship wisdom and strategies from experts in the field. With over a decade of experience coaching singles in marriage readiness, she is now bringing the revolutionary Meet to Marry program to even more people looking for genuine love.
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Book Excerpt
“ Our wedding took place on a balmy day in late August on the hills outside of Jerusalem… We knew we would be getting married in Israel, but we still didn’t know how it would unfold. ”Read about Bari and Michael's wedding in "Meet to Marry: A Dating Revelation for the Marriage Minded"