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Writing with the same candor and compassion she brings to her clients every day, Meet to Marry Founder and CEO Bari Lyman brings her marriage-readiness principles to the masses with her breakthrough book—Meet to Marry: A Dating Revelation for the Marriage Minded.

  • Be inspired by Bari's own journey of overcoming blockages and blind spots to find the love of her life.
  • Read unique case studies that show Meet to Marry principles in action in the lives of real clients.
  • Integrate the best advice from leading dating experts to experience a paradigm shift in dating and a breakthrough in your marriage-readiness journey.
  • Learn to counteract debilitating dating myths and embrace your own ability to find love with practical dating-for-marriage approaches.
  • Understand why marriage is a connection we as human beings long for—and how healthy partnerships make life more rewarding.
  • Identify your relationship needs, desires and goals—and learn how to fulfill them.
  • Have a breakthrough with purposeful reflection and self-assessment.

Buy Meet to Marry today or get started with our coaching program to "Be the One to Find the One!"

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"Meet to Marry" by Bari Lyman is a guidebook for anyone interested in changing the way he or she thinks about dating and eventually getting married.
Luxury Reading, blog
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Meet to Marry correctly identifies what we need to be looking for in a relationship. Smart, principled and engaging, this book works!
Stephen R. Covey, "The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People"
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The book is well organized and feels very personal; a reader can feel like they are accompanying (Bari) in (her) journey. The down-to-earth biography style makes the content seem very authentic, alive and real—and darn easy to read. In short, I'm very impressed and I think many people will take to it.
Shimshon Meir Frankel, Chedva Institute for Marriage Enrichment
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Finally, an action plan for finding a spouse.
Mark Kennedy, Chattanooga Times Free Press
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"Meet To Marry" hits the marital mark by asking thought-provoking questions and addressing elements of marriage readiness.
Dad of Divas, blog
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This book literally completely changed the way I viewed dating and myself as an individual. My disclaimer is that if you’re not ready from your core for marriage, this book is not for you.  Bari is SERIOUS about her strategy, and if you’re not ready it will scare you a little bit...  I was such a skeptic, yet it helped me beyond what I imagined. 
Jennifer Rose, Spoiled Little LA Girl blog
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I’ll tell you, trying to review this book on my own was hard as there are singles in this household and I couldn’t keep it to myself for a day. I did finally get my chance to read it and love her techniques for personal growth and more. Even better is her advice on how to 'Be the One to Find the One."'This book is an all-time favorite for the singles in our household and for many years to come! I definitely recommend this book for my single readers..
Luscious Deals, blog
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Lyman doesn’t just give you advice but shows you how to assess yourself to determine what you truly want in a relationship and how you might be sabotaging your own chance at happiness… I recommend it to all my single readers that want to leave the dating scene and find a partner. Although written from a female perspective, even men will find the suggestions useful.
Making Cents of It, blog
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Her writing style is engaging, and I felt as though my best friend and I were sitting at the kitchen table talking over my flaws.
Stacy, A Novel Source, blog
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